The boys are not in school today. This presents a few problems, but overall I am super excited that we are able to relax into the week. They are going on a hike later with friends, which is just one of those things I appreciate other mothers for. She texted me and said "hey do your kids want to join us for a hike, maybe scavenger hunt, tomorrow?"
Heck to the yes, yes.
Why dont I think of such things?
As those who follow me on Twitter may know, I received a Valentines Day card from the Coconut Girl in. the. mail. How nice is that?
I posted this on facebook not too long ago:
"2013 -- Let's Pay It Forward -- The first five people to comment on this status will receive from me (sometime in 2013), a handwritten note, perhaps with a gift attached, or a homemade surprise. There will be no warning, no plan, just a gift that I'm hoping you will receive with a smile. The catch, those five people must make the same offer on their FB status. Go. Create. Do. God Bless."
I am looking forward to surprising those five people soon!
Can I be honest though? I would like to be more generous. I am not writing this to be heaped with praise or compliments (see previous posts, if I do want compliments, I will tell you). I am not naturally generous in the small ways. I have ideas about being generous, but follow through is not always there.What I like about the facebook exercise is the idea of forcing myself to do it a few times so I will get in the habit of following through.
I would love to hear small ways people have been generous to you that have made your day. I am hoping to find a balance between generosity and budgetting. Now that I am on a budget, I know it would have been easy to make someone's day when I was working with a small gift certificate or something like that (not that I had time to run and get a gift certicate). I have to consider what generosity looks like without buying things. The Coconut Girl's card and neighborly mother are perfect examples, so I know it is possible.
Tell me, what has made your day recently?
2 comments:
I have such lovely friends. One knitted something just for me and sent it in the mail last week. Another made lavender sachets (I <3 lavender) and gave me a few for my sweaters.
I'm doing a Pay It Forward for 5 people and am in the process of gathering the goodies to go in each package. I'm having fun making and seeking out just the right thing for each person.
I love your friends! And you too, of course. Thinking ahead? Such a good idea, thanks! I suppose that is a great tip for being generous, it doesnt have to be spontaneous.
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